Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Attitude

I'm positive that everyone has read inspirational stories of having the right set of mind and the right of attitude. However, I feel that we will read those stories, say that's nice, and move on with our lives and forget all about it. At least, I know I did that.
I don't wany to do that anymore. Every time a bad, negative, or panicky thoughts come into my head, I have just decided to pause, take a deep breath (sometimes, more than one... several hyperventilation in a bag - please don't judge me... lol) and tell myself "it's ok. Just look at the positive side of things. Life is full of mistakes. The important thing is to learn from it."

And you know what? It's working so far.

Recently, I went through something that was.life changing. I thought I was going to die of a heart attack. My friends were all there for me day and night ensuring I was ok. I honestly felt like I could not go on from that point and then I snapped out of it.

I realized I'm blessed with AWESOME friends who love me and care about and care about what happens to me. They were there for me amidst their work, deadlines, midterms, exams, assignments... they MADE the time to be there for me.because they love me and care about me... and hey, guess what? I LOVE THEM, TOO! I have the bestest friends in the whole wide world infused with humour, humility, fun, introspective, UNDERSTANDING, and much much more. I loved you, all. (yes, yes, I know I'm going to be teased for my corniness, but I just have to tell the whole world that I love you guys!)

Then I decided that I have to stop this nonsense and pull myself together. I changed my attitude... rather, I went back to.the attitude I had. I started seeing the positive in everything. I decided to learn as much as I can from my experiences- from the good and the bad.

I tell myself that I can focus on the good or the bad; I can learn from this or cry over it; and I can live my life positively or focus on the ugly. (I definitely want the pretty! Haha)

Lol... this blog sounds like one big motivational speech... haha. But this message is for.my friends, I absolutely love you all!

1 comment:

  1. we're AWESOME that way!

    "ain't no man (or woman in this case) will be left behind"

    bwahahahha

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